Adoptees: if you could have picked your own adoptive parents, would you have chose the ones you have? No, not being adopted is not an option. How would the APs you were to be raised by be different, if you’d had the chance to choose them?
What is this need to KNOW WHERE YOU CAME FROM? What is that, especially after you were brought into and loved by a afmily? It seems rather selfish to me. It also seems like the effort to have a ready excuse for what doesn’t go the way that you want it. I am trying to […]
What does “feelings of abandonment” actually mean? I’ve noticed that many of the adoptees on this forum mention experiencing feelings of abandonment. Sorry if this seems like a stupid question, but what do feelings of abandonment actually feel like? How does it actually make you feel? Do you feel alone? How does it affect your […]
Do you think ALL adoptee’s feel the SAME about their adoption in terms of loss? No doubt there is an initial loss of being separated from the natural family. But do you expect that all adoptee’s are going to feel the same level of loss? What about those who are raised without secrets and lies […]
Do you believe that interracial adoptions should be allowed? After answering this question can you please explain your reason why?