Transracialeyes is a resource for those exploring the ideas of transracial and/or international adoption, whose primary raison d’etre is to provide a platform for adoptees to speak without censorship. We therefore make no apologies for what we think and feel here, nor do we serve anyone but adoptees.  Please bear that in mind as you read.  And if you ask, you must be prepared for answers that reflect adoptee’s feelings, vs. what you hope to hear.